Finding Community and Support as the Parent of a Stripper

by Jaz James

Hey Love,

Parenting often comes with unexpected challenges, and discovering your child is a stripper can bring a unique mix of emotions—shock, fear, confusion, and even shame. It’s important to remember you’re not alone, and there are people and resources that can help you navigate this journey. Finding community and support during this time is not only essential for your emotional well-being but also for fostering a healthier relationship with your child. Here are some steps to help you build a strong support network.

The Power of Community

One of the most vital steps in finding support is recognizing the power of community. Whether it's within your church, a small group, or an organization dedicated to supporting families in challenging circumstances, connecting with others can provide much-needed encouragement and perspective. Your church family can be a valuable resource for prayer, guidance, and accountability. While this can be a deeply personal issue, sharing it with trusted individuals who can offer empathy without judgment often lightens the burden.

If you don’t feel comfortable sharing openly in your local church, look for online faith-based communities or parent support groups. Many parents have faced similar situations and found comfort in knowing they aren’t the only ones grappling with these feelings. Being part of a group that acknowledges your emotions while helping you stay grounded in faith can make a world of difference.

Trusted Friends, Ministries, and Professional Guidance

Sometimes, opening up to one or two trusted friends is all you need to start building your support system. Friends who truly care for you will listen without offering unsolicited advice or passing judgment. Share your thoughts and emotions honestly, and allow them to walk alongside you in this season.

You can also reach out to a local strip club ministry for support. Many of these ministries, such as Jesus Loves Strippers, are dedicated to providing love, compassion, and practical help to families navigating this path. You can find a ministry in your area by visiting the "Cities" page on our website at www.jesuslovesstrippers.vip. If there isn’t a ministry in your area, feel free to reach out through our contact page, and we’ll be happy to connect you with a ministry outside our network. These ministries understand the unique challenges you face and can offer a safe, non-judgmental space to find guidance and support.

In addition to friends and ministries, consider the value of professional counseling. A counselor can provide a safe, neutral space to explore your emotions and help you process your feelings in a healthy way. Family counseling may also be a helpful avenue for improving communication and understanding with your child. Seeking professional guidance doesn’t mean you’ve failed as a parent; it’s a courageous step toward healing and restoration for your family.

Leaning on Faith and Accountability

As you seek support, don’t forget to lean on your faith. Turning to God in prayer and scripture can provide comfort and direction during difficult times. Remember, God’s love is unconditional, both for you and for your child. Allow this truth to guide your actions and responses. Consider finding an accountability partner—someone you trust to help you stay focused on love, grace, and forgiveness when emotions run high.

Navigating this journey isn’t about fixing your child or controlling their choices; it’s about showing them consistent love and being a source of support when they need it. Building a network of community, friends, ministries, and faith-based resources can help you move forward with hope and strength.

Parenting is a lifelong journey filled with both joys and challenges. As you face this season, take heart in knowing that support is available. You don’t have to go through this alone—reach out, connect, and let others help you carry the load.

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Jaz James is the director of Strip Church and founder of Lace Warriors, a strip club ministry that currently serves over 300 entertainers in West Texas and Northern Mexico.